If anyone else out there has an ex spouse, then I am sure you will understand where I am coming from.
I have not just my ex husband that I have to deal with but my husband has an ex wife that I also have to deal with on a weekly basis. What gets to me more than anything about my ex husband and his wife is that they think that their crap don't stink. They are the type of people that think that they are better an everyone. The reason this irritates me is they have got my oldest two kids acting the same way. My oldest children are 14 and 12. My daughter thinks that she has to tell me all the time how great her dad and step mom are, and how their stuff is better than mine. My daughter has even went so far as to tell me that my stepson is basically nothing. My oldest son is the same way. He is constantly telling me how his step mom and dad are better than me. This stuff really hurts my feelings and I have tried to explain this to my children but they act like they do not care.
Then I have to deal with my stepsons mom who does nothing but live off welfare and sit at home and change husbands every two years. She has took my stepson to Walmart and put shoes, coats, and hats on him take the tags off and walk him out of the store. She has taught him how to do a number of drugs. She is always telling him how and where she has sexual relations at. She recently taught him how to use tampons. This I haven't figured out. He is a boy and doesn't need to know how to do this. We have reported her on numerous occasions. But there have been no actions taken against her. She seems to get away with everything she does.
This is the kind of things that we put up with weekly. Not just from one but two ex spouses. I know that we made our beds and now have to live with our choices. but when will enough be enough and when will these people grow up and be adults. It is hard enough raising four kids, nut when three of them are from two families and one is ours it is hard to not let all this outside crap get to our youngest son.
My best advice is to think before you do and be sure of the person you are marrying.
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I understand where you are coming from. My husband and I both have our ex's. They can be a bit much to deal with on both sides. Just try to keep your head up and just do the best that you can. Things have a strange way of working out in the end.
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